- More and more schools are banning kids from using the term âbest friendâ in an attempt to get kids to be more inclusive
- The point isnât to stop kids from actually having best friends, but itâs a way to try and get kids to broaden their friendship circle
- One expert notes, âwhat schools are trying to do is foster the idea of kids having more than a single friendâ
While growing up most kids have a lot of friends, thereâs always that one special person who they called their best friend, who they shared all their secrets with, but now schools are trying to put a stop to that. These days more and more schools are banning kids from using the term âbest friendâ in an attempt to get kids to be more inclusive, a practice that allegedly started in the UK.
âThere has been a movement in some American schools and European schools to ban the phrase âbest friend,'â clinical psychologist Dr. Barbara Greenberg tells CBS News. âThe idea of banning the phrase âbest friendsâ is a very intriguing social experiment.â
Greenberg insists the point isnât to stop kids from actually having best friends, but itâs a way to try and get kids to broaden their friendship circle. âLetâs face it, you canât ban somebody from having a close relationship, and you canât really ban somebody from having a best friend,â Greenberg notes, âbut what the schools are trying to do is foster the idea of kids having more than a single friend.â
Jay Jacobs, who operates Timber Lake Camp, says the camp always tries to foster a more welcoming environment amongst kids, and believes encouraging them to have a wider group of friends is a key to future success. He explains, âItâs now about promoting kindness, looking to children to be kind to one another and to be aware of what it looks like when youâre not.â